Can I see your bookshelves?
Perhaps I'm weird, but there was a time, not too long ago, when upon entering
someone's home for the first time, I'd go straight to the bookshelves, and to
the record collection (invariably displayed in an open case) to get a feel for
the person I was visiting. Our book and record collections used to be a window
onto our personalities, or at least our histories.
Digital book and record
collections make sizing up someone much more difficult. Few people would raise
an eyebrow were you to wander over to their bookshelf and scan the titles there,
or if you took a record off a shelf to, in the act of holding it, perhaps also
get a feel for the music inside, and the person who listens to it. But even in
an era of shared bookmarks (and not too long ago these were perhaps also considered
rather personal), it's not considered very polite (nor is it particularly
easy) to click into someone's hard drive and skim the titles of albums and e-books
there.
Go
to: You keep your music on your hard drive?, or
Go
to: Doing things the hard way.